8 Best Hotels for Couples in San Diego

The Pacific Terrace Hotel is a beachfront hotel located in Pacific Beach. Here couples will enjoy a heated outdoor pool and hot tub with towel service, evening turndown service, and panoramic views of the ocean. The guest rooms are large, with patios and great views from the second and third floors.

What can be more romantic than falling asleep to the sound of the ocean? After a hearty breakfast buffet and free coffee, spend your day together relaxing on the beach in complementary hotel chairs, or grab a bike for a couple’s ride on the beach boardwalk in Pacific Beach. There is also a nightly happy hour by the pool, which overlooks the ocean.

Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa is absolutely breathtaking, from the moment you enter the meticulously cared for landscaping you'll be in awe. This is a perfect resort for couples who want to stay at the resort for rest and relaxation. The Spa Estancia was named as the "Best Spa" by San Diego Magazine, and offers a eucalyptus steam room, nine treatment rooms, and a private couple’s bungalow with an outdoor soaking tub for two.

There is also an outdoor pool, where couples can relax and enjoy poolside fare, perhaps after a long day of checking out Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve, which is only a ten-minute drive. This is one of our all-time favorite hotels for couples, as featured in our article, Best Hotels in San Diego, which also shares the best hotels for families, staycationers, and more.

The Pantai Inn is a hidden gem, tucked right in front of La Jolla Cove. Couples love strolling into town, which is only two blocks away, or enjoying an amazing sunset from the spacious balconies off their rooms. Keep an eye out, and you might see whales or seals passing by!

The Balinese style of this hotel is truly impressive, with each room decorated uniquely. The luxury suites promote romance, with fireplaces, robes, rain showers and four-poster beds. The beaches at La Jolla Cove are just a quick walk down the footpath.

The La Valencia Hotel is located in the heart of La Jolla, just a quick walk to the pristine beaches of La Jolla Cove. Couples love this charming, welcoming hotel, and often choose to stay on the property for their stay and take advantage of the luxury amenities, including in-room and poolside spa services, a fitness center including Peloton bikes, and multiple on-site dining options.

Although the recently renovated pool isn't the largest in San Diego, it is the most luxurious, with plush lounge chairs, towel service, poolside service and amazing views overlooking the Pacific. For extra quiet and privacy, book a villa, which is closer to the ocean.

L'Auberge Del Mar Resort and Spa is a boutique, upscale hotel located in Carmel, that is both classy and cozy. Just a short walk away from the amazing beaches and restaurants of Del Mar, most couples come to L'Auberge to relax and reconnect, and are not looking for the luxury amenities of the larger resorts. We've named this hotel as one of our all-time favorites for couples, as featured in our Best Hotels in San Diego article, where you can find the best hotels for families, luxury stays and more!

There is a gorgeous pool, overlooking the Pacific, where couples can take in the view from a private cabana, or choose to head down the footpath to the beach. At the heart of this hotel is the fine dining restaurant, Aubergine, which offers a daily tasting menu and extensive wine list. Don't forget to book a spa appointment- and truly relax and recharge.

The Fairmont Grand Del Mar is the ultimate luxury experience, and one of the only fifteen 5 star resorts in the world for the Fairmont hotel chain. Although the resort is welcoming to families, couples have the option to select adult-only accommodations and activities. The Signature Terrace rooms are spacious, private guest rooms that overlook the adults-only Relaxation Pool.

For those seeking a little more luxury, there are also adults-only suites and villas available. Couples love the romantic vibe of the resort, and take advantage of the multiple amenities, including golf, equestrian activities, beaches, and more!

Beach loving couples love staying at Tower23 Hotel, the nicest hotel on Pacific Beach. This oceanfront gem is popular among couples looking for some sun and sand in a relaxed atmosphere. Although there is not a pool, couples enjoy cocktails on the sun deck, or snuggling around the fire pit on the second floor.

There is a stairway down to the beach, and the hotel provides complementary chairs and umbrellas. When choosing a guest room or suite, the Sanctuary Suite is a top pick for couples, featuring ocean views, whirlpool tub, a step-in rain shower, and balcony. In-room spa treatments are available for couples who don't want to venture out!

The Pendry San Diego is a great choice for couples who want the experience of being in the Gaslamp Quarter, close to restaurants and nightlife, with a spa onsite. This glamorous hotel is modern, with a lobby that makes a statement and spacious guest rooms with plush furniture and top-quality linens. There are multiple options for dining and cocktails, and the rooftop pool offers panoramic views in addition to a cocktail bar.